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Lidia Sanduleac: “I see success not the peak of the mountain but the whole path to it”

Reading Time: 7 minutesLeaving your home in order to develop your personality and build a career it isn’t that easy as some would think. Many smart Moldovan students choose to study abroad every year. It might be considered both a good and a bad thing. It’s good because these students become our ambassadors over the borders, and it’s bad because some of those choose to stay there and never come back to develop their country.

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Leaving your home in order to develop your personality and build a career it isn’t that easy as some would think. Many smart Moldovan students choose to study abroad every year. It might be considered both a good and a bad thing. It’s good because these students become our ambassadors over the borders, and it’s bad because some of those choose to stay there and never come back to develop their country.

The students which travel to other countries have to adjust to a new culture, a new system and learn a new language, which most of the time isn’t that easy. It is the case of Lidia Sanduleac, a Moldovan student from Ungheni town who has gathered two experiences of this kind. In 2008 she was already studying in the United States of America as an exchange student. After one year, she returned to her homeland and finished high school. In 2011 she accepted another challenge. She studies in China for the next four years.

Lidia agreed to give an interview exclusively to Moldova.ORG talking about her experiences oversees and what is the key to success.

Moldova.ORG: You have previously studied for one year in the United States. How would you describe this experience?

Lidia Sanduleac: I was one of the luckiest people to be accepted and benefit of the FLEX scholarship. I can firmly state the cliché that it was one of the best experiences in my life which opened new doors that changed me completely. My experience was one of a kind. I was a very creative person, full of ideas but for some reason I was having a barrier to show everything that I have got, I have never taken the initiative to work on my self development. The US experience gave me the opportunity to explode, to start to express myself and shout out loud all my ideas, all my long-mould projects. And the most important thing is that I was inspired, motivated and I was hosted by a wonderful host family with which I am bounded for life, I still keep in touch with them and I still call them “mom, sister, brother”. I understood that I was born to be an exchange student because when I got home I felt useful for my society and this is grace to my US experience where everyone is feeling in duty to help each other. A part of my soul will always remain in the USA, Missouri, St Joseph.

Moldova.ORG: After you returned home, you began to organize social and cultural events. What has determined you to do such things?

Lidia Sanduleac: I remember the time when during our pre-departure orientation our teachers and assistants told us that the true experience, that the roots of our US life are going to spring after we get back home. I started with looking at our society with different eyes, with realizing that I have become a different person, a person that my town, my country needed. Therefore, first I joined activities organized by people and after that I started to organize projects, activities, to form clubs and NGOs on my own. I realized that it was my thing, that it was the work for what I could not sleep nights and sacrifice my entire spare time. I saw beautiful smiles provoked by the creative ideas that I have implemented, that is exactly that determined me everyday to keep on organizing social and cultural events. A lot of students got really interested in these kind of “new fashion”- volunteering and that made me really proud of my society, of the generation that is growing. There is a quote that says that “my dad always tells me to find a job that I like and I will never work a day in my life”. Volunteering was the pleasure for my high school years and I think it will remain as a life long pleasure.

Moldova.ORG: You have graduated from a Moldovan high school and now you’re majoring in International Relations in China. Why did you take the decision to study there and didn’t go back to the US?

Lidia Sanduleac: Every step of my life I like to live it in a different environment, to try different things, to challenge myself and experience new countries. Initially, when I got back from the USA, like any other exchange student, I passed through a severe reverse cultural shock and I was thinking and getting ready to do anything that I could do to go back. After getting involved in different activities back home and starting to participate at different seminars and trainings, to interact with people from all over the world I realized that life is too short to stagnate or to miss a chance of a lifetime. I got accepted at a university in Paris (Universite de Versailles), I got offers from Norway, I applied for scholarships in China, Russia and there were still alternatives to start my studies in Moldova or in Romania. Deep in my heart I was always thinking about my scholarship in China; I got the answers and the acceptance to other universities before I got the one from China, but I wasn’t that happy. Now I realize that this was actually what Ii wanted to achieve and I wanted to try. And here I am, being happy where I am, by whom I am surrounded and with what I am doing. Though, I know for sure that my life will not be linked with China, because, again, I am a vey unforeseeable person, with a very dynamic personality and I want to explore more and more and I will never hesitate to get back in the USA to see my host family, friends, to walk on the streets of my host-town.

Moldova.ORG: How different is the life in China than the one in Moldova? Tell me some strong and weak points of each nation.

Lidia Sanduleac: Moldovan and Chinese people are very friendly. Both nations have the cult of friendship. Of course there are similarities and differences. Moldovans are calmer, more prudent in the daily life. From the other side, Chinese are very dynamic, super-unforeseeable and full of energy. They do not pay attention to plan activities before head, they execute things on place. The students are very conscious, studious, and very intelligent. While interacting with them, we, the foreigners, they are very modest and very sincere, their behavior lacks of envy, arrogance, vanity and over exaggerated pride even though they have what to be proud of. They work very hard, harder than us; they can work in night shifts to wonder the world with the sky scrapers that they build in a record time. With all of these being stated, I am still not in fond of their style of wearing clothes. Sometimes I think that they don’t have any esthetical taste. And sometimes I miss the “exaggerated Moldovan glamour”. They do not pay attention to traffic rules and that’s why I am so afraid to ride a taxi or a bus there.

Moldova.ORG: How difficult was it to adjust to such a different society, with such a difficult language?

Lidia Sanduleac: Having the previous experience in the USA and the past interaction with a lot of people I can state that this helped me a lot to cope easily with the adjustment problem. It wasn’t that difficult to pass through the adjustment period because I have already changed the environments previously. It was hard to see a lot of people everyday; it was tiring to hear a lot of people speaking a language I couldn’t understand. But personally, I didn’t have any problems, obstacles to get integrated in Chinese lifestyle, culture, to eat Chinese food and make Chinese friends. Chinese people are so friendly and they are always there to help the “western faces” as they call us.

Moldova.ORG: How proficient were you in Chinese before you arrived there?

Lidia Sanduleac: I remember now as it was a dream, my first arrival at the International Beijing Airport and how suddenly all these Chinese characters popped up in my face. I was shocked, I was stoned and I was put in a balance that was more turning to the decision to come back home. All the Asian faces, Chinese characters; at the Information Desk I was answered in an English with a deep Chinese accent that I could barely understand. And talking about my proficiency in Chinese, my language knowledge were limited to "hello-ni hao" and "xie xie – thank you". It was a big challenge, but with a lot of hard work, patience, strength and sleepless nights, now I can communicate with Chinese people at a conversation level (level 3). In March, I am obliged to pass HSK 4 (something like a TOEFL, GMAT test) and in June HSK 5. It is indeed very hard language to be learned and it doesn’t make sense at all if translated to any other language, especially the grammar rules. 

Moldova.ORG: What are your long term goals? What do you want to do after you graduate from your Chinese university?

Lidia Sanduleac: China is giving us big offers. Everyday can give you wonderful opportunities, therefore I am afraid to say what I am going to do in the next years. Of course, I have sturdy plans, but being an “opportunity chaser” and knowing that this world is too wonderful to remain unexplored by me I know that my future is preparing nice surprises for me. I am absolutely fascinated by languages and the ability to build relationships and get to know and collaborate with wonderful, powerful people. I still have five years to learn Chinese. After I graduate I want to learn Arabic language and study a master degree in a country where it is spoken Arabic. I also want to study a degree in Russia. All of these studying, every step that I am making in my life is towards my biggest dream which is to become an ambassador.

Moldova.ORG: What is the key to success from your perspective?

Lidia Sanduleac: Success is one of the primordial dreams in a person’s life. But I don’t see the success as a dream, I see it as an ambition, as a plan, I see success not the peak of the mountain but the whole path to it. For me the success is when my dad is saying "good job, my daughter" and my mom is crying with tears of happiness. I am a very auto critical and a perfectionist person therefore most of the times even though I achieve a success I consider it as a good result. When we set high expectations, long term goals and when we reach them at a point in our life, then I consider it as a great success. It is something that gives you confidence to go forward. It is like a drug, once achieved you want more and more. To be focused, dedicated, determined and have the desire to do something is the key to succeed in every purpose we have set and have a serious attitude towards everything we hope for.
 

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“They are not needy, but they need help”. How Moldovan volunteers try to create a safe environment for the Ukrainian refugees

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At the Government’s ground floor, the phones ring constantly, the laptop screens never reach standby. In one corner of the room there is a logistics planning meeting, someone has a call on Zoom with partners and donors, someone else finally managed to take a cookie and make some coffee. Everyone is exhausted and have sleepy red eyes, but the volunteers still have a lot of energy and dedication to help in creating a safe place for the Ukrainian refugees.

“It’s like a continuous bustle just so you won’t read the news. You get home sometimes and you don’t have time for news, and that somehow helps. It’s a kind of solidarity and mutual support,” says Vlada Ciobanu, volunteer responsible for communication and fundraising.

The volunteers group was formed from the very first day of war. A Facebook page was created, where all types of messages immediately started to flow: “I offer accommodation”, “I want to help”, “I want to get involved”, “Where can I bring the products?”, “I have a car and I can go to the customs”. Soon, the authorities also started asking for volunteers’ support. Now they all work together, coordinate activities and try to find solutions to the most difficult problems.

Is accommodation needed for 10, 200 or 800 people? Do you need transportation to the customs? Does anyone want to deliver 3 tons of apples and does not know where? Do you need medicine or mobile toilets? All these questions require prompt answers and actions. Blankets, sheets, diapers, hygiene products, food, clothes – people bring everything, and someone needs to quickly find ways of delivering them to those who need them.

Sometimes this collaboration is difficult, involves a lot of bureaucracy, and it can be difficult to get answers on time. “Republic of Moldova has never faced such a large influx of refugees and, probably because nobody thought this could happen, a mechanism of this kind of crisis has not been developed. Due to the absence of such a mechanism that the state should have created, we, the volunteers, intervened and tried to help in a practical way for the spontaneous and on the sport solutions of the problems,” mentions Ecaterina Luțișina, volunteer responsible for the refugees’ accommodation.

Ana Maria Popa, one of the founders of the group “Help Ukrainians in Moldova/SOS Українці Молдовa” says that the toughest thing is to find time and have a clear mind in managing different procedures, although things still happen somehow naturally. Everyone is ready to intervene and help, to take on more responsibilities and to act immediately when needed. The biggest challenges arise when it is necessary to accommodate large families, people with special needs, for which alternative solutions must be identified.

Goods and donations

The volunteers try to cope with the high flow of requests for both accommodation and products of all kinds. “It came to me as a shock and a panic when I found out that both mothers who are now in Ukraine, as well as those who found refuge in our country are losing their milk because of stress. We are trying to fill an enormous need for milk powder, for which the demand is high and the stocks are decreasing”, says Steliana, the volunteer responsible for the distribution of goods from the donation centers.

Several centers have been set up to collect donations in all regions of Chisinau, and volunteers are redirecting the goods to where the refugees are. A system for processing and monitoring donations has already been established, while the volunteer drivers take over the order only according to a unique code.

Volunteers from the collection centers also do the inventory – the donated goods and the distributed goods. The rest is transported to Vatra deposit, from where it is distributed to the placement centers where more than 50 refugees are housed.

When they want to donate goods, but they don’t know what would be needed, people are urged to put themselves in the position of refugees and ask themselves what would they need most if they wake up overnight and have to hurriedly pack their bags and run away. Steliana wants to emphasise that “these people are not needy, but these people need help. They did not choose to end up in this situation.”

Furthermore, the volunteer Cristina Sîrbu seeks to identify producers and negotiate prices for products needed by refugees, thus mediating the procurement process for NGOs with which she collaborates, such as Caritas, World Children’s Fund, Polish Solidarity Fund, Lifting hands, Peace Corps and others.

One of the challenges she is facing now is the identifying a mattress manufacturer in the West, because the Moldovan mattress manufacturer that has been helping so far no longer has polyurethane, a raw material usually imported from Russia and Ukraine.

Cristina also needs to find solutions for the needs of the volunteer groups – phones, laptops, gsm connection and internet for a good carrying out of activities.

Hate messages

The most difficult thing for the communication team is to manage the hate messages on the social networks, which started to appear more often. “Even if there is some sort of dissatisfaction from the Ukrainian refugees and those who offer help, we live now in a very diverse society, there are different kind of people, and we act very differently under stress,” said Vlada Ciobanu.

Translation by Cătălina Bîrsanu

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#WorldForUkraine – a map that shows the magnitude of the world’s actions against Russian aggression

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The international community and volunteers from all over te world have launched #WorldForUkraine as a platform that shows the magnitude of the world’s actions against the Russian aggression. In a digital world – it is an interactive map of public support of Ukrainians under the hashtag #WorldForUkraine – rallies, flash mobs, protests around the world. In the physical dimension – it is your opportunity to take to the streets and declare: “No to Putin’s aggression, no to war.”

„Today, along with the political and military support, emotional connection with the civilized world and truthful information are extremely important for Ukraine. The power to do it is in your hands. Join the #WorldForUkraine project and contribute to the victorious battle against the bloodshed inflicted on Ukraine by the aggression of the Russian Federation”, says the „about the project” section of the platform.

Go to the streets — Tell people — Connect and Unite — Become POWERFUL

Volunteers have launched #WorldForUkraine as a platform that shows the magnitude of the world’s actions against Russian aggression. In digital world – it is an INTERACTIVE MAP of public support of Ukrainians worldforukraine.net under the hashtag #WorldForUkraine – rallies, flash mobs, protests around the world. In the physical dimension – it is your opportunity to take to the streets and declare: “No to Putin’s aggression, no to war.” There you may find information about past and future rallies in your city in support of Ukraine. This is a permanent platform for Ukrainian diaspora and people all over the world concerned about the situation in Ukraine.

So here’s a couple of things you could do yourself to help:

* if there is a political rally in your city, then participate in it and write about it on social media with geolocation and the hashtag #WorldForUkraine

* if there are no rallies nearby, organize one in support of Ukraine yourself, write about it on social media with geolocation adding the hashtag #WorldForUkraine

The map will add information about gathering by #WorldForUkraine AUTOMATICALLY

Your voice now stronger THAN ever

All rallies are already here: https://worldforukraine.net

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How is Moldova managing the big influx of Ukrainian refugees? The authorities’ plan, explained 

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From 24th to 28th of February, 71 359 Ukrainian citizens entered the territory of Republic of Moldova. 33 173 of them left the country. As of this moment, there are 38 186 Ukrainian citizens in Moldova, who have arrived over the past 100 hours. 

The Moldovan people and authorities have organized themselves quickly from the first day of war between Russia and Ukraine. However, in the event of a prolonged armed conflict and a continuous influx of Ukrainian refugees, the efforts and donations need to be efficiently managed. Thus, we inquired about Moldova’s long-term plan and the state’s capacity to receive, host, and treat a bigger number of refugees. 

On February 26th, the Ministry of Labor and Social Protection of Moldova approved the Regulation of organization and functioning of the temporary Placement Center for refugees and the staffing and expenditure rules. According to the Regulation, the Centers will have the capacity of temporary hosting and feeding at least 20 persons, for a maximum of 3 months, with the possibility of extending this period. The Centers will also offer legal, social, psychological, and primary medical consultations to the refugees. The Center’s activity will be financed from budget allocations, under Article 19 of Provision no. 1 of the Exceptional Situations Commission from February 24th, 2022, and from other sources of funding that do not contravene applicable law.

The Ministry of Inner Affairs and the Government of Moldova facilitated the organization of the volunteers’ group “Moldova for Peace”.  Its purpose is to receive, offer assistance and accommodation to the Ukrainian refugees. The group is still working on creating a structure, registering and contacting volunteers, etc. It does not activate under a legal umbrella. 

Lilia Nenescu, one of the “Moldova for Peace” volunteers, said that the group consists of over 20 people. Other 1700 registered to volunteer by filling in this form, which is still available. The group consists of several departments: 

The volunteers’ department. Its members act as fixers: they’re responsible for connecting the people in need of assistance with the appropriate department. Some of the volunteers are located in the customs points. “The Ministry of Inner Affairs sends us every day the list of the customs points where our assistance is needed, and we mobilize the volunteers”, says Lilia Nenescu. 

The Goods Department manages all the goods donated by the Moldavian citizens. The donations are separated into categories: non-perishable foods and non-food supplies. The volunteers of this department sort the goods into packages to be distributed. 

The Government intends to collect all the donations in four locations. The National Agency for Food Safety and the National Agency for Public Health will ensure mechanisms to confirm that all the deposited goods comply with safety and quality regulations. 

The Service Department operates in 4 directions and needs the volunteer involvement of specialists in psychology, legal assistance (the majority of the refugees only have Ukrainian ID and birth certificates of their children); medical assistance; translation (a part of the refugees are not Ukrainian citizens). 

According to Elena Mudrîi, the spokesperson of the Ministry of Health, so far there is no data about the number of  Covid-19 positive refugees. She only mentioned two cases that needed outpatient medical assistance: a pregnant woman and the mother of a 4-day-old child. 

The Accommodation Department. The volunteers are waiting for the centralized and updated information from the Ministry of Labor about the institutions offering accommodation, besides the houses offered by individuals. 

The Transport Department consists of drivers organized in groups. They receive notifications about the number of people who need transportation from the customs points to the asylum centers for refugees.

The municipal authorities of Chișinău announced that the Ukrainian children refugees from the capital city will be enrolled in educational institutions. The authorities also intend to create Day-Care Centers for children, where they will be engaged in educational activities and will receive psychological assistance. Besides, the refugees from the municipal temporary accommodation centers receive individual and group counseling. 

In addition to this effort, a group of volunteers consisting of Ana Gurău, Ana Popapa, and Andrei Lutenco developed, with the help of Cristian Coșneanu, the UArefugees platform, synchronized with the responses from this form. On the first day, 943 people offered their help using the form, and 110 people asked for help. According to Anna Gurău, the volunteers communicate with the Government in order to update the platform with the missing data. 

Translation from Romanian by Natalia Graur

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